How to be single

In this life, many beautiful things that could be felt if always in pairs, includes us as human beings. By pairing as if complementary each other.

However, there are some of us who feel that being single will be more comfortable than living with a partner. So, being single is considered as the best choice at this time.

Eventhough you are driven by the desire to separate and live on your own, you should decide through a very careful consideration.

You are required to think hard of the positive and the negative from all sides. This is in order, after deciding to live alone, there is no word of regret that will be out from your heart, mind and speech.

As for consideration from all sides, i divide into 2 main parts.

1. Relationships for the unmarried

For those who have a relationship of romance, at least, you have to compare ;

• the number between your partner's badness and kindness.

If indeed, he has a bad thing that is considered outrageous, perhaps being alone is the best option. However, if his goodness is more than the badness, i mean he has a little mistake during making relationship and can be tolerated, there is no harm in maintaining because may be you will not find someone more than him one day.

2. The relationship between husband and wife

Running the family life is very difficult, because your life is spent all day with your partner. You will see all sides of his life from waking up to sleep again.

• Consider what a marriage means

It is not easy to fit in and complement each other. But, separation and being single is also not the best choice because the name of marriage is basically bringing together 2 differences, 2 traits and 2 types of people who are in different gender.

By marriage, you actually indirectly declare ready to live by complementing each other and receive the lack each other.

So, why have to think being single is the last choice?

• Impact to the children

And especially about your children if you have. You may not realize how bad the effect of parents' separation for a child. The child may be changed character, loners, emotion, defiance, stress, can even endanger his own life of depressed.

But if forced, there are may be some considerations that bring single makes a child and you become happier. One of them, if between parents, there is violant act, mental hurt and other bad things that can be tolerated.

Once again, i do stress, i do not expect you to decide on your own just because so trivial problem.

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